Scribblings of a cold mind!

If you have always thought why some people turn out to be serial killers and criminals, there's a lot more to it. From rough childhood to abuse that's severely traumatic, life offers each serial killer or criminal a variety of catastrophes to cope from or barely take it and apply it on the other, which we would later call a victim.

The study that I very recently went through, made me stay fascinated, or let me quite aptly frame, well, glued to this subject.

Everybody on a very common note, and when I say everybody and common, that pertains to those who really are interested in researching the psychology behind a serial killer, would come to a bland conclusion that killing or let's say, killing on a spree, which is termed "serial killing", is a cause of psychological defect.

Fair!! Ain't it?

Now, the developmental stage of a mind

There has most commonly been one clear indication to every serial killer on the developmental stage, and that is abuse or clear misuse. The child would either be subject to noticing or to be the object of misuse itself or in most occasions, both. 

So, when the child is subject to something horrific, most of the times, there is no way of escape both mentally and physically. What the mind is subject to, is something negative and unbearable, which it suppresses, and is ardently looking for a way to escape, and that, would be in a subconscious way. So when, what is strongly suppressed gets released, will come out in more horrendous ways.

Its a simple myth to know. A human mind is on the developmental stage, while in the late teens. So, when that is influenced by things that are quite out of the ordinary, the mind tends to exhibit it all as a seeker of attention be it good or evil. 

Also in the cases of inwardly drawn teens, they tend to secretly experiment on horrifying stuff that the mind was subject to. This again could be a desperate cry for attention.

That is when serious delusions and insecurity crop up and slowly develop as long term mental illnesses that are hard to cure.

How do minds develop to be killers or criminals?

In many stages of mental development, a mind transforms to how it should behave and be, after the mid 20s. This is how the normalcy factor is. Extreme cases of social withdrawal and acute attention seeking could be attributed to something erratic or beyond normalcy.

When episodes of depression are caused by external social abuse or process of overthinking (say paranoia), then a serious stress to the mind comes. Either the mind could burst out to and release the emotional stress(say if emotional pent-up was the subject of depression in case of over thinking that causes stress) or the mind chooses to lie and manipulate to see how the depression feels like on the other, in order for a venting which is not a normal mind.

In both cases, the mind later denies to the venting out process.

The former process is probably a direct infliction and is considered an abnormal mental behavior or we call them mentally unstable. The latter process is the real idea or the brainchild  of a criminal.

A criminal is always a master manipulator. Cool as they say, most criminals never display symptoms of external stress or fear. When there is fear, there is guilt, and when there is guilt, there will be an act of accepting it. So, it can never be seen in a criminal.

None of the criminals who use lies or deception as a tool to access and control other's minds feel sorry for their crimes. That is why there is always a sense of remorselessness in each of them. 

Finally...

It is to be fathomed clearly, a mind of serial killer or a criminal is abused, taken advantage of, and that which goes through many traumatic incidents will always meticulously defend itself in cases of acute physical harm or mental torture. 

That specific kind of defending method could vary from inflicting the same kind of harm on the other, experimenting how the pain feels for the inflicted and taking a sense of pride in the self by the inflated element of power that could be had over the inflicted. 

PS: this is no PRO stuff in which case the headline probably clarfies ;) 

Cruising - the nostalgia !

Cruising is no doubt a heavenly experience; no wonder could it also be a bane to many. It all depends on how fast the cruiser adapts to the travel and trust me if you aren’t accustomed to the wobbly sea voyage, then you will end up shattering the very dream of a merry sail. Before even thinking of taking a trip on the vast sea, you must learn some tips that will help you transform your sea voyage to an unforgettable remembrance.

·        Primarily, ensure the type of cruise you choose. If you choose to travel alone, then it is better to pick the cruises that host exclusive parties and feasts for singles. It isn’t difficult to find a wonderful partner for yourself there!

·        Next, concentrate on the wardrobe. It’s always wise to study the type of travelers in the cruise so that you will be able to familiarize yourself amongst others. Wouldn’t it be funny to see you wear pajamas while others in the cruise are elegantly dressed? Ensure that you get along the drive without going out of track.

·         Food!! The best part of a cruise. Most cruises host an array of exotic delicacies. It is a best bet to taste some and still avoid an appetite that deposits heavier calories on your belly. It keeps you in a good shape plus never do you feel like nauseating.

·        I would suggest you to always take the flight of stairs rather than use the elevator in the cruise. You definitely get to burn the extra calories you carry because of the sumptuous food you’ve had.

·         Keep your things safe! A better idea is to place them in a locker exclusively allotted for travelers in the cruise. Some cruises do not have an alarm clock facility. Carry one with you to be on time so that you don’t miss to enjoy even the minutest of things.

·        The simplest of tips, still something thats vital is to have some empty space in the suitcase or your travel bag. Many a time, a voyage would not restrict you within the walls of clicking photographs and enjoying the beauty of the sea. You’ll certainly feel like brining goodies back home! You see a big stall on the shore that showcases the most beautiful decorative shells, necklaces and pearls. Wouldn’t you feel like buying them? Yes!??? And that is why the simple trick is to keep some nice space inside your bag to have them stored on the way back home.

·        If you are first time cruiser, ensure you visit the cruise well before the start of the journey and walk around to make yourself feel comfortable. Visit a doctor prior to the journey and have some pain killers, drugs that eliminate your nausea ready in your medicine kit.

·        The most vital of all tips is to keep a firm rapport with the other cruisers. After all, fun is all you want. Rather than being tight lipped, engage yourself in a tête-à-tête and spread happiness. You must keep out of any kind of trouble.

“A cruise is a luxurious wonderland speeding through the waters of the fresh blue sea.”

I am sure every cruiser enjoying the beauty of a sea from the cruise would write down amazing lines of poetry.

For all the “gonna be cruisers aka poets”, here’s my Bon Voyage and may you be touched with the best of glee, pleasure, unforgettable memories and wonderful people.